I don’t play “good kid, bad kid.”
Or “good parent, bad parent.”

The world loves black-and-white thinking—but real change lives in the gray.

I’m Tosha Schore, and for over 20 years, I’ve been supporting parents—and the professionals who serve them—as they navigate the real, messy, beautiful work of raising kids and guiding families.

What I’ve learned is that growth always starts with us.

Whether you’re a parent, a professional, or both, your own story matters. Sometimes it gets in the way. But when we pause and ask, What might I do differently?—that’s where transformation begins.

When we take care of ourselves, prioritize connection, set loving limits, and make space for play and laughter, things have a way of falling into place.

There’s no one-size-fits-all approach to parenting. Every child is their own person.

And there’s no single formula for supporting families—each one is unique.

But there is always a way to discipline, teach, and guide with compassion and clarity—without losing ourselves or compromising our values.