
You are the perfect person to help your sweet child.
By Parenting Boys Peacefully
Connection is the only way to change behaviors for good. But you’ve got to do it right.
In this free 10-Day Reconnect, I share the common mistakes parents make when we’re desperate for change, and teach you what you really need to know to get your boy back on track.
Give me 15 minutes a day, and I’ll give you a happier family!
Free Resource
Work with Tosha
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Community Support
The Peacemaker Community is a global membership for parents and caregivers raising boys with intention, compassion, and courage. If you’re feeling alone in your struggles, this is for you.
We support one another in caring for ourselves, connecting deeply with our boys, setting loving limits, and bringing joy back into parenting—especially when things get hard.
What makes us different? We don’t label boys “good” or “bad.” We understand their deep sensitivity, their struggles to process big feelings, and the explosions or shutdowns that often follow.
Together, we stay in the gray, grow our own emotional intelligence, and guide our boys to live their best lives.
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Live Group Course
Ready to diffuse your boy’s explosive outbursts?
If you find yourself saying “My son is so aggressive, nothing I’ve tried works and I can’t take it anymore”, this is for you.
This 6-week online program gives you the step-by-step system to reduce aggression in boys 2-10ish years old.
You get practical, easy-to-use tools to manage, reduce, and even eliminate combative and violent behaviors.
This isn’t a DIY course where you have to figure it out yourself - you’re supported every step of the way by a certified expert.
Out With Aggression helps boys reduce violent behaviors, and become more loving, calm & happy!
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Private Coaching
This is a bespoke, high-touch coaching experience for parents who are ready to move beyond fear and overwhelm, and into deep, lasting transformation.
This isn’t just parent coaching. It’s an investment in your child’s emotional future—and in fostering the kind of connection that carries your relationship through the teenage years and far beyond.
Grounded in neuroscience and over two decades of experience, I’ll help you gain the clarity, confidence, and skills to parent with intention—even when your child’s emotions feel overwhelming, or when they’ve pulled away and gone quiet.
Because this work is deep and personal, I partner with only a small number of families at a time.
Are you local to the East Bay?
Looking for in-person coaching?
If you’re local to the San Francisco East Bay, I offer private, face-to-face parent coaching in Walnut Creek to help you navigate challenging behaviors, strengthen your connection with your child, and bring more peace to your home.
Meeting in person offers the gift of stepping away from daily demands and fully focusing on what is, for most of us, the most important job we’ll ever have—parenting.
We’ll talk openly about your challenges and work through practical strategies tailored to your family, so real change takes root and you feel hopeful about the road ahead.